TheVictors
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I'd say there were 2 periods in my life where I had groups of friends and some started smoking weed for the 1st time in their lives and some didn't, high school and undergrad. It was a bigger social divider in high school and the 2 groups (smokers and non-smokers) actually drifted apart. The achiever/non-achiever divide was clear, both times. And as things progressed, the number of pot smokers in my professional circle has dropped off. I only knew one guy working towards a PhD that was still smoking pot and I don't think that he ever graduated. I'm not counting people that tried it or even people that had used it regularly and then given it up. Those people existed, but I literally don't know anyone that used it through the process and finished. Granted, it might be different in other fields.
Maybe it's different in Colorado where "everybody" does it, so there isn't a division or stigma.? I mean you're describing a very common experience where -- just as with alcohol -- there is the insecurity and peer pressure side of it and overall time period of adolescence or college.
I didn't really smoke weed much before the summer following high school but saw plenty of people have issues in college because of the "freedoms" they suddenly had.
In fact, a buddy of mine who was a 4-sport letterman in HS and who started smoking when I did, flunked out of WMU as a second year student because he couldn't keep his shit straight. We've since reconnected through Facebook but I would say his life would have been very, very different had he never smoked weed.
Same thing with my father if he'd never picked up a beer.