now that you mention your stepson, I do remember you saying he wasn't initially happy with your move, but I assumed for some reason you stayed in Michigan.
I hear you about the South. Texas (Gulf Coast/Houston region at least) is nice from October to about April and then the heat, humidity, and mosquitos at night pretty much mean I stay indoors as much as possible. The county I live in and the county I work in are pretty diverse and reasonably moderate (both were blue in the last election) but you get outside of that and it gets bad in a hurry. like openly racist, angry and proud. plus lots of guns and pickup trucks (although you see those even in Houston).
some may say "so what? don't talk politics, keep to yourself, live and let live." and they're right to a point. But it also means it's hard to make connections, and become part of a community.
And it goes way beyond politics when you have those openly racist, angry and proud folks...which is what I was getting at. It doesn't really impact my day to day at all, but I hear some disturbing stories from my step-son about his school. And we're already in the "good" district.
But yeah, about that previous post, my step-son has adjusted pretty well. He has a good set of friends, is running track and cross country, and has a girlfriend (ugh). Still misses Monroe, but starting out his HS career as the new kid probably forced him to focus more on school work and get off to a good start. He was a straight-A student throughout elementary and most of middle school, but started to slack off in 8th grade. I think he had a couple friends that were on a bad path...I like to think he wouldn't have followed, but you never know. He's sporting a 4.0 so far through two years at his new school, so all is good.