Really? You never heard the story about how he ran across a parking lot in Vegas because he saw Sarah? You know James Jr is openly gay and has/had been at UM in Theater ...his ex-wife is in Cali and at the time he took the M job, their youngest stayed there with Mom to finish HS. Sarah is from outside KC and a co-worker/friend of mine who grew up with her has gotten to know Jim pretty well. He was on the sideline for the Orange Bowl game where Stanford obliterated OU and beforehand, Harbaugh informed M he wasn't interested ...giving us Hoke. More recently, my buddy had been on the Niners team bus and two seasons ago in A2 following the Michigan game, he watched Texas beat Notre Dame with coach Harbaugh and a few others at his house!
Coach and Sarah have paid a few visits to Wines Elementary over the time he's been in A2 and are quite the visible, local family in A2. Our data integrity manager (UM, '85) has a niece named Georgia who is currently (again) the Harbaugh's nanny - she went to France with the team this past summer.