I typically stay out of these discussions and for many reasons. But ...as I've said before in other, similar threads, my Mom is a minister and for a time so was my stepdad. I got to see the "church" from the inside and can attest to seeing and knowing about many, many rather unHoly things taking place behind the scene. And no, not talking about Catholic Priests and the child molestation stuff, but pastors lying and stabbing one another in the backs politically ....the same power struggles that any other organization or company might face. And, taken on the whole, while many ministers come across as meek or Godly or reverent, they are an arrogant lot and many have rather large egos.
I have made the analogy before ...it's like having grown up in Hollywood and being on set and seeing what really happens when movies are made.
Sort of takes away from the "magic" on the screen.
My relationship with God to me is my business and my relationship and I don't really care for others telling me much more about it.
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I felt the need to come back to this post by Vic.
I made a comment earlier about having seen the opposite of what you did, but didn't want to give the impression that there were never any problems. There are many preacher's kids that heard one thing on Sunday, but saw something completely different during the week. My upbringing wasn't like that. I saw the same thing Mon-Sat that I heard Sunday morning. So, as far as my father was concerned, I was blessed.
But, there was a situation that occurred when dad started the church that he told me about when I was 15 or so. He said when he made it public that he was going to start a church in Garden City that a pastor from an established church invited him to lunch. As they talked, this other pastor said something along the lines of, "You take everything west of Middlebelt. I've got the east side covered." Dad looked him in the eye and asked, "Are you saying that every family east of Middlebelt attends your church?" He had to reply, "No." Dad said, "Let's just both spread the Gospel and let people go where they feel led." Last time he had an issue with him.
Dad once counciled a woman whose husband didn't attend the church. He didn't like that his wife sought council so he called dad at home one night and said, "I'm going to get some friends and come over and move some refrigerators!" Which was a new one on me, but meant he intended bodily harm. The guy never showed.
Those are the only two incidences that I heard of. There may have been other things when I was a kid, but when I turned 20 or so I was ordained as a deacon and was in any meetings that would have brought up conflicts with other churches or pastors.
Interesting facts (or not): Did you know that little ol' Garden City is the home of not one, but two, nationally known companies?
Yep, the K-Mart on Ford Road by Middlebelt is the very first. And the Little Caesars at Cherry Hill and Venoy is the first as well. Ilitch opened it in May of 1959. I remember the date because I was born in Jan of '59. Also, it opened as "Little Caesars Pizza Treat" because Ilitch wanted to name it Pizza Treat, but his wife wanted Little Caesars. They dropped the Pizza Treat part and she was the winner in the long run. Depending on how many years he worked from that location, I'm sure I met him as a kid. We lived two minutes by car and ordered fairly often.