Hiring family and friends refers to offering jobs to family and friends of potential recruits, not 100% illegal, but definitely shady. Harbs has done that a number of times. If you guys lost a recruit to OSU and Meyer hired said players father, you'd cry foul.
Mississippi broke the rules, not Michigan, but Shea petitioned the NCAA saying he has misled about the recruiting violations at Ole Miss, but doesn't it seem strange that the top rated QB in the country, who grew up a UM fan, lived closed to Ann Arbor goes to the dirtiest program in the country and they hire his brother? Dirty of course, but it's easy to look the other way and say that he wasn't a part of that, as long as he can be eligible at UM year 1.
Harbaugh has always skipped his show after losing to OSU, he did the same thing after losing to UM in 2017. He also sent Don Brown to the coaches conference call after UM players decided to play red rover at Spartan Stadium this year. The guy simply doesn't want to answer tough questions, only wants talk to the media when they're kissing his ass.
It's fine that you hate Meyer, you should hate him, he's beaten you every year and he's the head coach of your rival, no reason to like him. I just don't understand this moral high ground argument you have when Harbaugh has bent more rules than the Catholic Church in his tenure at Michigan.