That's the one thing that's bothered me about this conversation, namely from one poster who slings childish insults because that's the only way he can talk. For some reason according to said poster, being more passionate, going to the games, "caring more", makes that person a more knowledgeable fan. Those fans apparently are the only ones allowed to have conversations about the team.
If you like a player and decide to follow that player's career and become attached to that team in the process, so be it. If you live in a state and support your team, but find allegiance with another team FOR WHATEVER REASON, who cares? This whole loyalty thing drives me insane. The people that get hurt the most in this city are the ones that pour their heart into the team. There's zero reason to live like that. When you find yourself caring more than the players, that's a problem. And it happens a lot.
And the team gives you NOTHING for being emotionally connected, nothing. All they do is call you after the season and ask you to renew your tickets because they want money. You don't get the ultimate fan award and $10,000 cash for being so true to the team. You get hurt, that's it.