1) no, I'm not downplaying the #13 rival. In fact I'm now saying for at least the 3rd time that the loss to uofm hurts more than the loss to dook - moreso because of expectations than the rivalry, but it still hurts more. Again for about the third time, I've actually been making a different argument which is that had we beaten uofm, it would have mattered less to me (and the committee, and just about everybody who understands college basketball) than beating unc and purdue (and dook if we beat them). Remember, if we beat you, you don't have the purdue win either and you move down in the rankings, not up. I don't see why it's so hard for anyone to understand why that win would be less valuable. If we played you a third time and beat you, I'd feel differently about it given the much different circumstances. If I think beating them is important but less important than beating better teams or simply not as important as you think it should be to me, that's not downplaying the uofm loss.
2) I'm not overreaching either and there isn't a big difference because I've never accused uofm fans of anything in the past. I know we're not your primary rival in football and I don't care. I also know most rational uofm fans, some here even, admit the football rivalry is much bigger than people like dubbs and hungry claim. You may not have meant to suggest that anybody thinks any game is "not important" but you seem to clearly suggest that it's should be more important to me than it is.